Benefit of doubt

How much benefit of the doubt is emotionally healthy? If connections keep being cancelled or put off with a vague ’soon’, how long do you continue to wait without getting frustrated and quit t //meelp.com/blog/402478/post_3646781.html?ANON_CONFIRM=TRUE Patsy:I even gave her advice on some new guy she was dating and she did the same for a girl i [...]
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Kattie:
Absolutely no way I can last a marriage with little to no sex as it is now.
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
Should I branch elsewhere or simply file for divorce?
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
I am thinking of just actually finding it elsewhere and its hard because I love my wife and I rather not, but when you're wife is bashing you for just trying to spark our sex life, I feel emotionally down, and honestly sad.
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
And when I try to discuss it with her she gets irritated and calls me a pervert Sorry to some who may be upset about what I'm going to say, but its how I feel.
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
Lucky to be intimate twice a month.
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
I know she's been through so much with pregnancy and taking care of our daughter, but in the past year and a half, we've only been intimate about maybe 20 times.
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
I have discussed this issue with her and I really don't know how to approach her in a kind way of saying I want to be more intimate with her and make passionate love.
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
She also spends quite a bit of time on her phone even when I'm home.
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
And she has become a coupon addict and its become an obsession.
(2 January 2017)

Kattie:
She takes care of our little girl but the house is filthy and an extreme mess.
(2 January 2017)