Why?!

So I have a question for the Meelp Blogiverse:Why do you swing?I finally gave this question some thought recently, and there are a lot of things I enjoy about the lifestyle, to be sure. The parties ar_ Syble:I’m sick of feeling like she’s ignoring me.(5 March 2017) Syble:She could’ve gone in earlier if she wasn’t out eating [...]
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Van:
Why did he get married then come back to me asking for sex?
(7 March 2017)

Van:
If it doesn't mean that, then what does it mean?
(7 March 2017)

Van:
Does this mean he doesn't love his wife?
(7 March 2017)

Van:
It just hurts knowing he views me as a sex object, and he treats his wife as his wife, and he apparently didn't see me as wife material otherwise he would have married me instead.
(7 March 2017)

Van:
This means he just wants to use me for sex now.
(7 March 2017)

Van:
We both tried to get each other back at different times.
(7 March 2017)

Van:
He knows I still have feelings for him because our break up was messy.
(7 March 2017)

Van:
My ex boyfriend got married a year ago and has texted me asking if I wanted to have sex with him.
(7 March 2017)

Eileen:
What do you do when sex was amazing with your ex and you keep wanting them?
(7 March 2017)

Eileen:
But every time you have sex you get back together but then get heartbroken because sex is the only thing keeping you together?
(7 March 2017)