Why is Dating so difficult

Looking for male perspective - I am a single female whose been out of the dating scene, by choice, for a long while. I’m trying to get back to dating seriously but have been really turned off by the way guys are choosing to date. 1. Does the guy pick you up? 2. Is it [...]
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Yong:
He stared at me for longer than five seconds and everyone noticed even his friend.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
The senior was looking at me so much.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
Then we saw him and my friend said ohhhh that s him.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
This week I saw him on Wednesday and I was walking and talking to my friend about him.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
This week was the best week though.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
So I thought they had broken up.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
The a few days later I saw her crying and he wasn t there to comfort her.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
Then ii was like oh well he s off limits.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
I noticed that he had a gf when I saw him making out with her.
(20 December 2016)

Yong:
Then he kept staring at me days after that.
(20 December 2016)