Looking for what I’m seeking

I’m ready again to look for someone new to meet, hopefully get to do something new or more adventurous with this summer at least and see how it goes from there without expectations. You must be between 35-46 who is a nonsmoking, attractive, fit, well mannered, successful yet sweet and affectionate SWM. I’m an educated [...]
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Matthew:
He'd tell me I was so pretty and nice and we had a lot in common.
(4 December 2016)

Matthew:
We chatted everyday for a month and he kept telling me how, he wanted a nice, stable gf and was breaking up w his current gf.
(4 December 2016)

Matthew:
We both work in the same government building but diffrent departments.
(4 December 2016)

Deana:
My cousin has an embarrasing video of me?
(4 December 2016)

Deana:
But shall I be worried for now or what?
(4 December 2016)

Deana:
I'm going to take his phone and delete it once I see him.
(4 December 2016)

Deana:
He sent it to me on whatsapp with laughing emojis and I was like hahahaha wtf.
(4 December 2016)

Deana:
So shall I be worried if he has the video?
(4 December 2016)

Deana:
My cousin and I aren't really close, and don't really like each other.
(4 December 2016)

Deana:
He toke my sisters phone and sent a video to him on whatsapp (the video was already stored on my sisters phone) and the video doesn't contain anything inappropriate but it's embarrassing because I was doing these ugly faces and stuff.
(4 December 2016)